Tuesday, July 4, 2017

Feeling for Others

It's annoying when people jump to the worst conclusions about something that has happened. 
Like they assume that you meant the worst possible thing and totally take it waaaayyy out of control. 
When in reality, it's a simple tiny mistake or misunderstanding.
That could have easily been corrected quietly and quickly.
And didn't need to be blown up out of proportion.

It's annoying because some people just like to create drama where there really isn't any drama....

But the most annoying thing is that when I see the misunderstanding happening, when I see things starting to blow up out of proportion....I want to fix it.
I want to tell them and show them how the misunderstanding is happening and guide them to the proper line of reasoning for them to see that this is what was actually meant to happen. 
I want to jump to the defense of the poor soul who had the misfortune to be at the wrong end of the other person's ire. I want to do so much....

And the stress of wanting to help out and being unable to.
The stress of trying to think of solutions to a problem that isn't even my own.
The stress of wanting to know what happened, of wanting to see the issue resolved in a positive manner....

Ends up giving me a headache. Y_Y ugh. 

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